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Stormy and Me

4/29/2018

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Stephanie Clifford, aka Stormy Daniels
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Me (photo by Marcy Maloy)
I’m one degree of separation from Stormy Daniels.
 
How can this be?  
 
I live in a sleepy beach town hundreds of miles from Los Angeles.  I’m not involved with triple XXX rated
films, and I absolutely don’t compete in fancy pants horse shows.  (Until about eight weeks ago, Daniels had
managed to seamlessly blend these two disparate lives—the former in California, the latter in Texas—together.)  
 
Also, I’d never heard of Daniels’ uber-confident attorney Michael Avenatti, who’s as comfortable in a television
studio as in a courtroom.  And, he does a lot more than represent celebrities: last year, Avenatti was a lead attorney
in a high-profile lawsuit against Kimberly-Clark, and scored a whopping $454 million verdict for his clients.  
  
But I am friends with Lois Gibson.
 
For those not up on news of the day, Gibson is a seasoned forensic artist whose work is so remarkable that she has been listed for years in Guinness World Records as The World’s Most Successful Forensic Artist.  Indeed, Gibson’s drawings have helped catch more than 1,250 perps—and counting.
 
Unlike cop sketchers of yesteryear, who instructed shell-shocked victims to pick out chins, noses and other facial features from a book, then superimposed those characteristics onto a blank face, Gibson goes deeper.  
 
With her portable easel and a bright light shining above that stand, Gibson takes about an hour to complete one sketch, working with charcoals, pastels and chalk.  She also uses the same kind of durable paper that sidewalk artists prefer because it holds a lot of color, and can handle a lot of erasure marks, all without fading. 
 
But Gibson’s methods are mostly different because of her interview style.
 
Somehow, she is able to gently draw victims out, getting them to relive their horrific experiences in a safe place.  Maybe it’s because Gibson, too, has been a crime victim (in her 20s, she was assaulted by a stranger), so understands how to communicate with those she interviews. 
 
“I know how to unblock memories,” Gibson once told me.  “You’ve got to be really nice and happy and make the victim laugh.  I’m really good at that.  I make them feel better.  I tell them to relax.  It’s hypnosis without labeling it that.”  In addition, Gibson is hyper-aware of unspoken boundaries—it’s why she puts her easel between herself and the victim, and also makes sure she sits at least an arm’s distance away.
   
Last month, Gibson sketched the face of the man whom Stormy Daniels said threatened her in Las Vegas seven years ago.  The chilling incident occurred in broad daylight; Daniels’ baby daughter was strapped in her car seat a few feet away.  The reward to catch the thug stands at $131,000, and may go up.  
 
I knew nothing about Gibson and Daniels working together until Michael Avenatti posted a photo on Twitter.  In the picture, Gibson is at her easel, the light above the drawing, and Daniels (who Gibson calls Stephanie Clifford, Daniels’ legal name) is facing her. 
 
I sat up straight, then did a double-take in front of my laptop. 
 
“Wait, wait, WAIT,”  I said out loud. “That’s Lois.  I know her.  She’s my friend—and she’s with Stormy Daniels.” 
 
We met about 20 years ago, when I had another life in Southern California. 
 
I was a producer for the TV show Unsolved Mysteries, and one of my jobs was finding stories.  Facebook and Twitter didn’t exist and Google was just a few years old.  So I got leads by combing through reams of letters from viewers; nurturing my cop and reporter contacts, and reading true crime stories.  One day, I saw an article about Gibson, and cold called her. 
 
We worked for months on a segment, then became friends.  We even vacationed together on the Gulf Coast near Galveston, Gibson with her teenage daughter and me with my four-year-old. She did a pencil portrait of my daughter then, and I framed it.    
 
I’m hoping that Gibson’s sketch will be the lynchpin that nabs the man who threatened Daniels. 
 
Numbers don’t lie, and given Gibson’s astonishing record, I predict an arrest sooner than later.  For those wondering why Gibson hasn’t publicly talked about the drawing, she recently posted that expressing political views on social media is not conducive to her mental health, and as a forensic artist, “I guard my mental health.”  
 
But Gibson is passionate when it comes to promoting her profession.  To this end, she has done many other television interviews about her work, and also teaches a college level course for those interested in embarking on the same career.  
Gibson believes, as I do, that she has been given a special gift to catch, and help put away, the monsters of the world. 
 
I am honored to call her my friend.       
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Lois Gibson and Stephanie Clifford
14 Comments
Susan Jordan
4/29/2018 02:16:33 pm

Very cool. I hope it helps identify the guy.

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Hilary
4/29/2018 04:14:41 pm

Her success rate speaks volumes. If he's still around, I think he'll be nabbed.

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Ron Jarvis
4/29/2018 02:39:32 pm

This was great. What gift Lois has.
Nice article, thanks!

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Hilary
4/29/2018 04:15:47 pm

Yup. Lois also told me she has no plans to retire. Good for us, not so good for all of the bad guys. :)

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Larry Grant
4/29/2018 03:54:41 pm

Wife. Mom. Clown. Foodie. Investigative Journalist...
Life is never boring for this husband! Oh my!!!

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Hilary
4/29/2018 04:16:29 pm

Haha! I thought you were going to say OY VEY! xo

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George Marshall link
4/29/2018 06:24:15 pm

That is a special gift. Not only the artistic skills required but also an imagination with psychic capacity would have to come into play. In other words it seems that she is able to peer into their minds and see what their memory pictures are revealing. That's how I imagine it in any case.

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Hilary
4/29/2018 06:29:42 pm

Yup. She's had more than a handful of perps turn themselves into cops once they see a sketch of themselves, usually on the local news. This most recently happened less than 2 weeks ago. Detectives told Lois that once this perp saw the sketch, he decided to turn himself in, "to just get it over with." (FYI, she is an employee of the Houston Police Department, but when time permits, takes on outside clients, including other law enforcement agencies, including the FBI.)

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leslie spoon
4/29/2018 09:16:34 pm

Hilary Lois is really gifted. Her drawings are great. She would be a fascinating person to meet. I hope they find that guy.

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Hilary
4/30/2018 08:30:41 am

When we first connected, what made her so interesting to me was the other side of her: she lived in a quiet suburb in Houston, had two teenage kids (both now married; she has a handful of grandkids now), and was married to a plumber. But her house is FILLED with paintings in nearly every room. Not forensic stuff, but lots of landscapes and portraits. She jokes about not being able to stop. :)

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kerri fisher
4/30/2018 12:04:16 am

Wow, cool story. I wonder if she did one or more of the Golden State Killer sketches I saw on tv. There were about three of them - all different, but all seemed pretty right on.

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Hilary
4/30/2018 08:33:39 am

Oh, Lois's portraits are much more detailed than the ones of the Golden State Killer. Once you know her work, you can't miss it.
You can check out some of her sketches here: http://www.loisgibson.com/videos.html :)

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Kevin Fagan
4/30/2018 11:02:50 am

Those sketch artists do an invaluable service! Nice column

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Hilary Grant
4/30/2018 11:10:27 am

Like every profession, some are better at what they do than others. Lois is at the top, and in my opinion, the very best. I'm thrilled that she has no intention of retiring.

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